64 - When People Don't Support You

In this episode, Annaliese and Alan discuss how much influence others have on our personal goals and self-perception. Annaliese highlights the challenges of feeling unsupported by others, how this can impact our sense of progress in life, and how to help ourselves get more of what we need, no matter how other people are showing up.

You’ll Hear About:
-Noticing where you depend on others for validation: Annaliese walks you through how to recognize areas in your life where you may rely too heavily on others for support and approval, and why you might feel this way.
-What lack of support makes you believe about yourself: When you don't receive the validation or support you’re hoping for, it can lead to assumptions about your own worth. Annaliese offers tips for identifying the limiting beliefs that arise in these situations.
-Acknowledging that you can’t control others: It’s important to notice when others are trying to help but just miss the mark. Are you expecting too much from them? Reflect on how these expectations might be limiting your ability to meet your own needs.
-Building inner awareness and self-support: Are you clearly communicating what you need from others? Can you see how you are capable of providing some of that support for yourself? Listen and you'll hear more practical advice for strengthening self-reliance.

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Questions to Ask Yourself:
- What areas in my life feel dependent on others’ support?
- What do I believe I’m missing without it?
- What can I start doing to better support myself?

PRACTICING SELF-SUPPORT:
- Notice your needs and how you can meet them independently by asking yourself reflective questions that help you see it:
             -Who am I relying on to support my needs more? Have I communicated my need closely? Do I agree they can actually support me in this?
             -Is this need something I can be giving to me? What need I can start meeting for myself? How can I act differently to do this better?
- Use your resources—time, money, energy—more mindfully to align with what truly matters to you.
- Practice self-compassion by anchoring yourself in truths you can repeat to yourself about your identity, reminding yourself you also have the power to meet your own needs.

Listen in today to learn how to give yourself more the support you need, no matter your circumstances or what you experience from others.